"ONLY THE GOOD FEEL GUILTY"

         Bad peolpe don't feel guilty, they are too busy being bad. Good people feel guilty because they are good and they feel they have done wrong, let somebody down, made a mistake or screwed up somewhere. Good people have conscience.Bad people don'yt.If you do feel guilty thats a good sign. It shows that you are on the right track. But you have to know how to deal with it, because guilt is terribly selfish emotion. It is wasteful and pointless.

          We have 2 choices: put it right or dump the guilt. Yes, we all make mistakes. We all screw up from time to time. We don't always do the right thing. And if we got conscience, we will feel guilty sometimes but guilt is utterly pointless unless it is acted on for the better. you would be better off feeling something else, if you are not going to act on your guilt. If you hang around feeling guilty but don't do anything about it, then its a waste of time and life.

          If you do have cause to feel guilty, then if you can, put it right. That's the simplest course of action. And what if you can't put things right? Then learn the lesson, make a resolution, dump the guilt and move on. If it keeps on gnawing away at you, you have to find away to put it behind you.


                                                          - Richard Templar according to his book " THE RULES OF LIFE

"LIVING A LIFE THAT IS FULL"

An abundant and a prosperous life: these are hopes and desire of most people. To them, prosperity, abundance and success in life are ingredients for a happy life..
Unfortunately,many people have come to measure an individual  happiness and meaningful life in terms of prosperity and success; with material things and achievements.Our prevailing secular society reinforce the perception and the belief that contentment and satisfaction can be gauged by the number of the latest models of cars that the one owns or the newest latest of cellphone one has. For many people a big house, a high and powerful position, lots of property and money are the basis for a person to be considered successful and happy in life.
Life is therefore spent trying to acquire and possess many things in life. Consequently, this has brought about so much self centeredness and selfishness.
Life becomes really prosperous, abundant, and successful when the human heart is fulfilled. It becomes meaningful and fruitful when it is lived to the full..

                                                                                                         -Father Paulo Gamboa
 

"THE PAST"

..everyone of us fell in love for the wrong one..

..this poem is my original composition when I was in high school

..and this is dedicated to my "EX"..

THE PAST
Do I need to care, about you my past?
Our happy memories faded fast
And all the memories that we have done
And now in reality it was gone

One year almost when I was moving on
I am weak, all i know is holding on
And now I regret that I loved you most
And so I missed you, and I feel I'm lost
 
I lost everything when you are leaving
Every minutes fast, my tears was falling
And how I wish that I was to dying
For me not to feel the fate of loving

Now I've learned a lot and my heart is clear
I throw the moment in the shooting spear
And now I forgot, all about my dear
My past comes to end, my future is near

According to my favorite book : "the rules of life".

.. You might be tempted to dwell on past because it was awful or because it was wonderful. Either way, you have to leave it behind because the only way to live is in the present. If you’re revisiting the past because of regrets, then you need to be clear that you can’t go back and undo what you’ve done. If you hang on guilt, you’re only damaging you’re self. We’ve all made bad decision that have adversely affected people around us that we professed to love but whom we treated disgracefully. There isn’t anything you can do to wipe the slate clean. What you can do is to resolve not to make such bad decision again..

              TRY TO SEE THE PAST AS A ROOM SEPARATE FROM THE ONE YOU LIVE IN NOW. YOU CAN GO IN THERE BUT YOU DON’T LIVE THERE ANYMORE. YOU CAN GO VISIT BUT IS IT NOT HOME ANYMORE. HOME IS HERE NOW. EACH SECOND OF THIS PRESENT IS PREVIOUS. DON’T WASTE ANY DROPS OF PREVIOUS TIME SPENDING TOO MUCH TIME IN THAT OLD ROOM.DON'T MISS WHAT IS HAPPENING NOW BECAUSE YOU WERE TOO BUSY LOOKING BACK, OR LATER YOU’LL BE BUSY LOOKING BACK AT THIS TIME AND WONDERING WHY YOU WASTE IT..

 ..to my fellow classmates,friends and lover..

 ..I hope this post will inspires you a lot..

"THE TRUTH BEHIND EVERY SUFFERING"

In some instances of life, there are times that we felt so tired, too weak and doesn’t have any strength to face every trials that comes to us. In my part I always asked myself why life is like this. Why we need to suffer. And why it took at this far, but I never ever question God why He gives me this kind of life.

I really love Sunday, not because it is a rest day a time to hang out with families and friends, but because it is the day when I visited my father’s house, the church to be exactly. I have a time to pray, to say thank you for every blessings. To say sorry for all the sins that was being committed.

Every time that I was in the church I felt so relax, safe and blessed. I really love listening to the word of God. I don’t know, maybe it’s a miracle; those questions in my mind had been answered through the help of the gospel, especially the homily.

I remember last Sunday; the homily is all about “sufferings”. It says that it is not Gods made but most of them are man made. God doesn’t want us to suffer. He gave those trials to us because He knows we can overcome it and most of the time we need to learn from it.

Keep believing that everything has its own purpose. Don’t forget that everything happens for a reason. Don’t get tired and even give up. Remember, God is always with us.